“Wife was all over another guy at her bday party in front of me…”

Recently hosted a bday party for my wife at our house, had friends over, it was themed, I made a ton of food, got decor and costumes, etc.
She specifically invited another guy she told me she barely knew and was trying to hook him up with a friend. Come to find out he has a gf already, and my wife was ALL OVER HIM the entire time.
Caressing his face, back or neck, arm around him, rubbing his back, biting her lip while smiling and looking at him. Her attention was all to him, even when me and her played beer pong she’d take her shot then go right back next to him to talk, waited on her to shoot a few times.
I called her out, she said she doesn’t remember, she was drunk, and denies any of it happened. I was sober, watched it all in front of me.
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My Girlfriend Weighs 460 Pounds. I’m Still Here.

People hear the number first.
Four hundred and sixty pounds.
They don’t hear seven years.
They don’t hear PCOS.
They don’t hear we were kids when we met.
They don’t hear this didn’t happen overnight.
They don’t hear I still recognize her laugh before I recognize her body.
They hear a weight and decide that means they understand our whole relationship.
They don’t.
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The Person You Became to Stay Safe

At some point, you probably decided there was something wrong with you.
You “lost your spark.”
You used to be louder, freer, more expressive.
Now you’re careful. Reserved. Controlled. Low-maintenance. Easy.
Poll of the Day

The Dumping Grounds
7 Women Describe What Life Is Like With Big Boobs

1. 34H here (34I in American sizes)
I shot from an A cup to a DD by the time I was twelve, and it just kept going from there. It was certainly jarring, to have men in their thirties and forties give you that kind of attention when you’re still mentally a child. I was given hell from the girls in my year because of my shape as well.
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Awful Financial Decision Maker of the Day

In December 2019 I financed a brand new Charger Scat Pack. This was right before inflation really took off so they were cheaper than they are now. Sticker price was only 36k. After the dealer added a warranty, “paint protection plan”, dealer fees, taxes, etc, I ended up financing 51k!
At the time I didn’t know ANYTHING about cars, the only reason I even bought the car was because my v6 2011 camaro that was paid off started having transmission trouble. Replaced it twice and it still wasn’t driving properly, so I bought the scat pack.
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What It’s Really Like to Be a Public Defender

Most people don’t think about public defenders at all. When they do, it’s usually through a cartoon—either the incompetent burnout who doesn’t care, or the slick TV lawyer who wins on a dramatic speech in front of a jury. Neither of those people exist.
What exists instead is a job where you wake up every morning thinking, “Did I set that hearing for today or next week?” and fall asleep thinking about the one innocent client who didn’t make it out clean.
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Your Insurance Agent Isn’t an Investment Advisor

In the world of personal finance, words matter. But in the sales offices of insurance agencies across the country, words are often blurred, softened, and repositioned. We are told about “wealth accumulation vehicles,” “tax-sheltered growth,” and “private banking strategies.”
However, beneath the glossy brochures and the talk of “guaranteed returns,” there is a fundamental regulatory and mathematical wall that every consumer needs to understand: Insurance is not an investment.
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