“My Screen Time is 12+ hours per day”
I (25 M) have a bad phone addiction. I spend 12+ hours daily on my phone, mostly watching porn & doom scrolling Reddit/TikTok.
I tried using my iPhone’s Screen Time feature to “limit adult content” and set “app time limits”, but I always end up disabling the restrictions. I even had a friend set a secret passcode, but I used the “Forgot Passcode” option to reset it to bypass the restrictions.
I also tried using a few adult content blocker apps, but they are too easy to uninstall.
How can I reduce my screen time and set hard limits that I can’t easily turn off? Thanks
The Art of Fitting In: What It’s Like to Be a Functional Sociopath
If you want to know what it’s like to live as a sociopath—someone with Antisocial Personality Disorder—the first thing you have to understand is that life isn’t a TV drama or some true crime podcast. It’s not sinister. It’s not thrilling. Mostly, it’s flat. Indifferent. I’m forty years old. I have a job, a marriage, a mortgage, routines—just like anyone else. The main difference is that for as long as I can remember, the part of me that feels for other people just doesn’t seem to exist.
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Why Letting Your Child Struggle Is One of the Greatest Gifts You Can Give
There’s a moment that every parent knows well: your child’s face crumples, frustration rises, maybe even tears start to fall. Every fiber in your body wants to fix it. To smooth the way. To reach in and solve the problem—sometimes before your child even knows there is a problem.
But what if I told you that the hard moments—those messy, imperfect, not-yet-solved ones—are exactly where your child needs to be? What if struggle isn’t something to avoid, but something to gently, lovingly allow?
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What a Good Novel Can Teach You That a Self-Help Book Never Will
For some reason, the number of men reading fiction has plummeted. Instead, many gravitate toward shelves stacked with self-help, pop business, and motivational bestsellers—books with numbers in the title, action words on the cover, and promises of transformation just a few chapters away. Stories? Novels? Literature? Somehow, those have become optional—nice, maybe, but unnecessary. This isn’t just a quirky shift in taste; it’s a genuine loss, a shrinking of the inner world, and a missed chance to grow in ways that can’t be bullet-pointed.
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Linkage
Thanks to Zillow, Your Friends Know How Much Your House Costs—or if You’re Secretly Rich – Wired
There Are Some Things You Just Can’t Argue With – Ned Hardy
One of the best products to make your car look new again – Amazon
The Best Pizzas in the World, According to 512 Global Experts – Food and Wine
How Parents’ Trauma Leaves Biological Traces in Children – Scientific American
Kennedy’s Battle Against Food Dyes Hits a Roadblock: M&M’s – NY Times
Musk says he’s forming a new political party – AP News
15 Things Only Poor People Understand—And Rich Folks Miss Completely – Ned Hardy
This is the first multitool you should give to your son or daughter – Amazon
Watch Iconic Artists at Work: Rare Videos of Picasso, Matisse, Kandinsky, Renoir, Monet, Pollock & More – Open Culture
One Extremely Human Quality May Help Explain Why Neanderthals Went Extinct – Inverse
Make Your Life Better by Saying Thank You in These 7 Situations – James Clear
15 Worst Sega Genesis Games Ever – Den of Geek
The 5 Worst Things About Having an Alcoholic in Your Life – Linkiest
Mapped: The Highest Marginal Income Tax Rate for Each U.S. State – Visual Capitalist
The Dumping Grounds
What It’s Really Like to Own a High-End Sex Doll
If you’d told me five years ago I’d one day be the owner of a life-sized, high-end silicone sex doll, I probably would’ve rolled my eyes. I had all the stereotypes in my head: guys with sex dolls were weird, lonely, or desperate, right? But then real life crept in—nights that felt endless, an apartment that echoed with nothing but the TV, and a slow, gnawing realization that I was tired of chasing hookups or feeling like every swipe on a dating app was a referendum on my worth. I didn’t plan on becoming a “sex doll owner.” It just sort of happened, step by step.
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“I’m afraid of coming off as creepy to women”
I’m a 32-year-old guy, and lately I’ve become almost paralyzed by the fear of coming across as creepy to women. I wasn’t always like this, but over the last few years, I’ve read so many stories online about women dealing with unwanted attention, and I’ve realized how easy it is for a well-meaning gesture or conversation to be misinterpreted.
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“The woman I’m seeing is making me crazy with her mixed signals”
I’ve been seeing this woman for a couple of months now, and honestly, I’m starting to fall for her. When it’s good, it’s amazing. We click, we laugh, the chemistry is real. But I can’t shake the feeling that she’s keeping me at arm’s length, and I keep finding myself second-guessing everything.
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