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Author: Theodore Lee

Theodore Lee is the editor of Caveman Circus. He strives for self-improvement in all areas of his life, except his candy consumption, where he remains a champion gummy worm enthusiast. When not writing about mindfulness or living in integrity,  you can find him hiding giant bags of sour patch kids under the bed.
TRUTH

Imagine Being This Entitled in a Third World Country

begpackers

There’s a special kind of asshole who books a one-way ticket to Thailand, spends three weeks drinking buckets of vodka on the beach, and then decides the local population should finance the rest of his spiritual awakening.

Meet the begpacker.

If you’ve spent any time traveling through Southeast Asia, you’ve probably encountered one of these people. Usually white, usually Western, usually wearing some combination of elephant pants, dreadlocks, and the vacant expression of someone who just discovered Buddhism through a YouTube video.

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Advice Column

“I gave up on dating and started seeing escorts”

After five years of putting myself out there and getting nowhere, I’ve finally stopped trying to date. I went all in—I approached women respectfully, tried to be thoughtful and self-aware, and forced myself to treat each rejection as something impersonal, just part of the process. But after more than a hundred rejections, the “don’t take it personally” mantra just stopped working. The frustration started eating away at me, and eventually, the pain turned into self-hate.

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Life Advice

Would you like YOU if you met YOU?

Here’s a question that might make you a little uncomfortable: If you met yourself at a party, would you actually like that person?

Not the version of yourself you carry around in your head. Not the person you intend to be, or the person you believe you are deep down. The actual you. The one other people have to deal with.

Would you enjoy having a conversation with yourself? Would you find yourself interesting? Would you trust yourself with a secret?

Or would you walk away thinking, Man, that person is exhausting.

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Links

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29 Works of Art Worth Slowing Down For – Ned Hardy

One of the best cocktail books you can own, it teaches you how to make bar-quality drinks at home while explaining the ingredients, techniques, and secrets behind a truly great cocktail. – Amazon

Inflation on many everyday items was entirely due to tariffs – CNBC

An AI-generated Rumpelstiltskin meme is freaking out much of the internet – NBC News

Fraudster jailed for using 10K bots and AI songs to outstream Taylor Swift – Ars Technica

Want to be a lifelong learner? Don’t go it alone – Psyche

We Tested 5 Ways to Cook Steak — the Best Method Was Also the Simplest – Food & Wine

30 Historical Paintings That Were Just Waiting to Become Memes – Ned Hardy

These things help you get every last bit of toothpaste out of the tube, saving money, reducing waste, and keeping your bathroom counter tidy. – Amazon

Amazon’s New ‘About You’ Page Lists Everything It Knows About You – Lifehacker

How the Billions from the Opioid Settlement Are Being Spent – Archive.ph

Pro wrestler arrested after referee dies following ‘banned’ move during match – The Express

‘It Is Done. Hail Satan:’ City Immediately Regrets New Religious Liberty Law That Allows Prayer at City Council Meeting – 404 Media

The rise of gas station opioids – Archive.ph

She Designed Meta’s New AI Logo. Then Came the Hate – Archive.ph

Advice Column

“My friend wants me to get a loan under my name for her”

doormat

I have a coworker with two kids who is constantly struggling financially. I feel bad for her, so I’ve gotten into the habit of paying for her breakfast and lunch almost every day. I’d say I cover her meals about 95% of the time.

She also regularly asks to borrow money, usually $20 to $50 at a time. The most I’ve ever lent her was $250.

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