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Author: Theodore Lee

Theodore Lee is the editor of Caveman Circus. He strives for self-improvement in all areas of his life, except his candy consumption, where he remains a champion gummy worm enthusiast. When not writing about mindfulness or living in integrity,  you can find him hiding giant bags of sour patch kids under the bed.
Life Experiences

What’s It Like To Have Loving Parents?

It’s strange to think that love—true, unconditional love—can be so invisible when you have it. It’s like gravity. You don’t notice it’s there until you see someone floating away without it.

The people who grow up with loving parents rarely recognize the enormity of the thing they’ve been given. As kids, they assume that all parents care, that all fathers come home from work and ask how the day went, that all mothers instinctively reach for their child’s forehead when they hear the slightest sniffle. They don’t stop to consider what life would be like without that quiet, unwavering presence in the background, like a safety net they never realized was beneath them until they saw someone else fall.

Read the rest: What’s It Like To Have Loving Parents?
Life Advice

To Everyone Who Had a Terrible Childhood and Is Trying Their Best Now

There should be a medal for making it out of a childhood that hurt you and not letting it turn you into someone who hurts others.

Not a metaphorical one. A real one. Heavy. Engraved. Maybe something you could wear around your neck that quietly tells the world: You have no idea what I’ve survived. And I’m still here.

Read the rest: To Everyone Who Had a Terrible Childhood and Is Trying Their Best Now
Links

Linkage

20 Fascinating Photos Collected From History – Ned Hardy

This thing is all the rage right now if you want to make your own ice cream at home – Amazon

Meta creating AI version of Mark Zuckerberg so staff can talk to the boss – The Guardian

Photo highlights from the Coachella Music and Arts Festival – AP News

26 Memes That Perfectly Capture the Chaos of Loving Someone With Borderline Personality Disorder – Ned Hardy

Best spatula out ther. It is awesome because it’s perfectly balanced, heat-resistant, and made from a single piece of flexible yet sturdy silicone that makes cooking, scraping, and stirring effortless – Amazon

Airbnb Hosts Don’t Want to Talk to Guests Anymore, Are Outsourcing Messages to AI – 404 Media

Two Supermassive Black Holes Are on a Cosmic Collision Course – Nautilus

Millions of people are pretending to be AI chatbots — for fun – NPR

Candy now tastes different. It’s not just you. – PopSci

Trump’s Erratic Behavior and Extreme Comments Revive Mental Health Debate – NYTimes

26 of the Best Keyboard Shortcuts Everyone Should Know – Lifehacker

Life Experiences

I Lived in North Korea for Two Years And It Was Nothing Like What I Expected

I went to North Korea with a head full of assumptions.

You don’t realize how many you have until you’re actually there—until the place stops being an idea and starts becoming a routine. A place where you wake up, drink coffee, walk your kid to school, argue over groceries, and try to make sense of a world that doesn’t fit neatly into the stories you were told.

Read the rest: I Lived in North Korea for Two Years And It Was Nothing Like What I Expected
Advice Column

“My fiancée wants a pass before our wedding which is just a few weeks away.”

We’ve been together for 4 years now, and it seemed like everything was great and mutual. Yesterday at dinner my soon to be wife brought up the idea of both of us having a free sleep with whoever pass before the wedding. This stupid idea of hers completely blindsided me.

I could tell that she had been thinking about it for some time, and just waiting for the perfect moment to bring it up. She said it would be healthy for our relationship and our marriage would off to a better start because of it. She also claimed it would help get everything out of our systems.

Read the rest: “My fiancée wants a pass before our wedding which is just a few weeks away.”
Advice Column

“How much of a red flag is it that I’m a 40M and never been in a relationship?”

What if we hit it off, go on a date, and past relationships come up? If I admitted I’ve never really had one—or told a white lie about never being in a long-term relationship—would that be a dealbreaker?

Let’s go further. Say we’ve been dating for a while, things get intimate, and I admit I’ve never done this before. Would that scare you off?

Read the rest: “How much of a red flag is it that I’m a 40M and never been in a relationship?”
Links

Linkage

Over 4,732 Messages, He Fell In Love With an AI Chatbot. Now He’s Dead. – WSJ

5 Answers To Questions You Always Wondered About – Ned Hardy

KT Tape is great because it provides targeted support to muscles and joints while still allowing full range of motion, helping reduce pain and improve performance without restricting movement. – Amazon

45 Tips — That You Haven’t Heard a Million Times Before — to Improve Your Sleep – Art Of Manliness

Eight Things You Should Never Share With an AI Chatbot – Lifehacker

Kansai Yamamoto’s Wildly Ahead-of-Its-Time 1970s Fashion, Captured in Photos – Rare Historical Photos

How To Raise A Polite Kid, But Not A Brown-Nosing Suck-Up – Fatherly

There Are Some Things You Just Can’t Argue With – Ned Hardy

This book is great because it gives simple, practical communication tools that help you connect with kids, reduce conflict, and get cooperation without yelling or power struggles. – Amazon

When Do Viewers Get Hooked on a TV Show? A Statistical Analysis – Statsignificant

10 Debut Novels That Are Also Their Authors’ Masterpieces – Lithub

What robotaxis will mean for Uber and Lyft drivers – Axios

The 7 Most Savage Ways That Animals Mate – Linkiest

The Scarcity Effect: Why We Buy More Than We Need – Becoming Minimalist

The Rule of 72: How it Works for Your Investments – I Will Teach You To Be Rich