
My fiancé (34M) and I (30F) have been together for 5 years and living together for 1.5 years.
This morning, while I was cleaning the kitchen (I do all the cleaning) and already working from home, he came in at 7:30am and asked if I was the last person to shower. I said yes and mentioned I bathed the dog last night. He said the shower head was turned toward the door and sprayed him, getting his shirt wet. I apologized right away—I’ve accidentally done this once before while cleaning.
Then he asked me to go turn it off. I was confused why he left the water running, came to get me, and let it spray all over the floor. I rushed into the bathroom, turned it off, and grabbed towels. He stood in the doorway and asked, “About how long will it take you to finish cleaning?” which made me angry. I threw a towel down, rushed out, and told him he could go shower.
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