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Author: Theodore Lee

Theodore Lee is the editor of Caveman Circus. He strives for self-improvement in all areas of his life, except his candy consumption, where he remains a champion gummy worm enthusiast. When not writing about mindfulness or living in integrity,  you can find him hiding giant bags of sour patch kids under the bed.
Life Experiences

How Quitting Porn Brought Me Back to My Marriage

I stopped watching porn, and at first it felt like the smallest decision in the world. It wasn’t the result of a crusade or some kind of rock-bottom moment. It was more like realizing you’ve been listening to the same song on repeat for years, and one day, you just don’t want to hear it anymore. You get up, turn off the music, and sit in the new quiet. It’s not dramatic, but it’s different.

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Advice Column

“My children have multiple fathers”

I’m a woman in my 30s, and I’m struggling with a deep sense of shame that I can’t seem to shake. I have two children with two different fathers. I love my kids more than anything, but whenever I meet new people or have to explain my family situation, I feel this wave of embarrassment. I immediately assume people are judging me, even when they haven’t said a word.

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TRUTH

Good. Let the Diamond Industry Burn.

lab grown diamonds

There are few things more satisfying than watching an industry that spent generations selling scarcity suddenly discover what happens when scarcity disappears.

Natural diamond prices have fallen roughly 60 percent in five years.

In March 2022, a one-carat natural diamond hit an all-time high of around $10,000. Since then, prices have cratered.

And the primary reason is beautifully simple:

We figured out how to make diamonds.

Not fake diamonds. Not cubic zirconia. Actual diamonds.

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Links

Linkage

23 Photos To Remind You That Life Is Beautiful – Ned Hardy

If you’re on your feet all day, traveling, working out, or just dealing with tired legs, a good pair of compression socks can seriously help with circulation, swelling, and fatigue without feeling bulky or uncomfortable. – Amazon

Photos of the week – Reuters

Her Brand Was Tradwife. Now She’s Divorced. – NYTimes

5 Blood Tests You Might Not Be Getting at Your Annual Physical – Time

Rare Photos Show Life Inside a New York Mental Hospital in the 1930s – Rare Historical Photos

Child psychologist shares 6-word phrase to say to upset kids that works better than ‘calm down’ – Upworthy

These Data Centers Could Use More Power Than Major Cities – Visual Capitalist

30 Memes That Won The Internet This Week – Ned Hardy

If you want a solid, no-nonsense mechanical keyboard that feels great to type on without costing a fortune, check this out, it’s reliable, comfortable, and just works. – Amazon

Hauntingly rare McDonald’s character shows up on Facebook Marketplace for $10,000 – SFGate

Peptides, Supplements, and the Pentastack: The Unholy Guide to Looksmaxxing – Archive.ph

16 Characteristics Of Highly Toxic Parents – Scary Mommy

The ’20-5-3′ Rule Prescribes How Much Time to Spend Outside – RD

Man Doesn’t Realize Girlfriend Of 7 Years Is 25 Years Older Than Him Until Night Before Wedding – Bored Panda

Advice Column

“Should I tell my best friend that his girlfriend hit on me?”

To be fully transparent, my best friend and I didn’t always get along. We hated each other once upon a time, and it was over a girl that we were both trying to go out with. Years later we squashed it and became best friends, and I would say we trust each other very well.

Recently while we were seshing, his girlfriend made a couple of comments to me like, “He’s lucky I didn’t meet you first,” and some other stuff about how lucky my girls are. She also touched me on the leg a couple of times while she was saying it.

Idk if I should tell him because of the past issues we’ve had over women. What should I do?

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