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Author: Theodore Lee

Theodore Lee is the editor of Caveman Circus. He strives for self-improvement in all areas of his life, except his candy consumption, where he remains a champion gummy worm enthusiast. When not writing about mindfulness or living in integrity,  you can find him hiding giant bags of sour patch kids under the bed.
Advice Column

“I fucking hate my wife”

I hate my wife, and I hate what I have allowed our marriage to do to my life. At the same time, I hate myself for what I have done to hers.

We had children even though, deep down, I did not want to. I should have been more honest with myself about that. I resent her for not finishing her degree, and I resent myself for not recognizing that she was never going to take it seriously. I hate that she spends far more than we can afford, and I hate myself for allowing that to continue.

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Linkage

PHOTO ESSAY: Inside a detention center where scam workers wait for their return home – AP News

28 of the Worst Financial Decisions People Have Ever Witnessed – Ned Hardy

This uses steam and a bristle-free scrubbing head to quickly remove stubborn grease and buildup, making it one of the easiest ways to clean your grill grates. – Amazon

Which food vendors make the most money at the Minnesota State Fair? – CBS News

Why ‘AI food slop’ is making people so uncomfortable and upset – USA Today

It sure looks like hackers breached a major ID card verification service – TechCrunch

John Lennon’s First Grandchild Has Been Born – Consequence

As mathematicians grapple with AI, divisions are multiplying – Coda Story

What Is Advanced Mathematics Actually About? – Ned Hardy

Fill this clever container with water and vinegar, microwave it, and the released steam loosens dried food so it wipes away easily. – Amazon

AI wealth is creating a ‘mansion shortage’ and upending San Francisco’s housing market – NPR

Scams in the US are at a record high. Yet most victims get no help and some end up losing even more – AP News

Stanley Kubrick’s Daughter Tackles ‘Eyes Wide Shut’ Missing 20 Minutes Conspiracy Theory – Hollywood Reporter

22 Increasingly Unhinged Ways to Fix the NBA – The Ringer

MLB players on salary cap, CBA talks, potential lockout, more – ESPN

Life Experiences

What It’s Like Being a Teenage Girl in South Korea

I’m sixteen, which in Korea means I’m almost a finished product.

That’s how it feels, anyway. By your third year of high school, people start talking about your “specs”—test scores, clubs, volunteer hours—and your face like they’re items on the same checklist. At cram school, the girls trade math tips and moisturizer samples. On the group chat, we swap past exams and plastic-surgery clinic screenshots. When adults ask what I plan to do after graduation, they mean both college and whether I’ll “fix” anything. It’s said kindly, like asking if I’ve bought a new backpack.

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Answers

Why Defense Lawyers Must Defend Even the Guilty

It’s one of the hardest ideas to wrap your head around: a criminal defense lawyer defending someone they know is guilty.

To most people, that feels like helping someone get away with a crime. Immoral. Twisted. Wrong.

But here’s the uncomfortable truth—defending guilty clients isn’t just legally allowed, it’s for the system to work the way it’s supposed to.

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Advice Column

“My boyfriend says he is nowhere near ready to propose to me after 5 years together”

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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five years. For about the last year, I’ve been talking about wanting to move. He has always been apprehensive about it, but I’ve tried to keep the conversation open so we could figure out what our future might look like together.

Last month, he signed another one year contract at his current job. I found out after the fact. That really hurt because he knew I wanted to move, and it felt like he made a major decision that affects our future without even talking to me about it.

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Advice Column

“How do I get rid of a vehicle I can’t afford anymore”

I bought a Tacoma for work because I let my father in law talk me into it. I was able to easily afford the monthly payments but the job I was at went under.

Now I work from home but for $5 less an hour. I owe 35k on this stupid thing but I can only get 22.5k at the dealership or maybe 30k if I private sell. The issue is I don’t qualify for the loans I would need for the remaining balance after the sale.

I really really don’t want to default on the payment cuz I know it will wreck my credit score and I don’t know what my payments will be for the balance left after they auction it. Any help or advice would be much appreciated

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Linkage

21 Fascinating Photos That Deserve a Closer Look – Ned Hardy

An affordable, easy-to-install bidet that delivers a powerful, adjustable clean without requiring electricity. This will change your life! – Amazon

‘Idiocracy’ Predicted All of This – Texas Monthly

5 Things You Should Never Plug Into an Extension Cord – Good Housekeeping

The Most Important Longevity Term You’ve Probably Never Heard Of – NYTimes

Duane ‘Keffe D’ Davis Found Guilty of Orchestrating Tupac Shakur’s Murder, Ending 30-Year-Long Cold Case – People

The extraordinary untold story of Freddie Mercury: Mary Austin on her best friend – and love of her life – The Guardian

Map shows where Yosemite developer wants to build private road – SFGate

Stan Kroenke to buy Angels; record $4B valuation, sources say – ESPN

Think you’re smarter than the average person? Put it to the test with today’s Daily Quiz. – Ned Hardy

This makes bathroom cleaning effortless. Just spray it on weekly, let it work overnight, and rinse away soap scum and grime the next day. – Amazon

Lindsay Clancy trial jury “unable to come to a unanimous decision,” dismissed for day without verdict – CBS News

Florida bans Flock cameras and other license plate readers from state highways – NBC News

I Should Be Allowed to Cold-Call My Friends – Archive.ph

A rare cancer stalks children in this wealthy O.C. suburb. Parents desperate to unlock mystery – Archive.ph

CDC reported then deleted two measles deaths that were questioned by RFK Jr. – Ars Technica

Jiu Jitsu competition ends badly – Reddit